Posted on March 11th, 2010 by jane
I will be 14 in 12 days and my parents still don't want me liking boys. I have had about 9 boy friends already.Now I go with this guy I really like and I want my parents to know him but I'm scared. They always joke around saying I can't date until I'm 21. How do I convince them to let me like guys? All my other friends have told their parents that they like people!They can't really get mad for you liking guys, just explain to them that you will not cross the line, that it's an innocent relationship, and you are interested in seeing where it goes. Explain to them that only through dating people will you ever have hopes of beginnin to realize the kind of person you want to end up with.
Finally: If you're 14 with 9 ex boyfriends...you should probably start being a little more particular as to who you date.Sit down and talk to them about it; you are getting old enough and if they see that you are mature about the situation, they should be fine and you'l have ther supportYou parents have your best interest in mind. Just talk to them. By going to your parents about something like this, they will see that you are maturing more and more, and they will have more respect for you going to them rather than hiding things behind their backs.
On the other hand, your parents are more than likely talking about you actually dating someone. Their perception is more along the lines of you going out on dates alone with boys, and school grade dating is more of a at school thing. all you have to do is have a talk to them. whoever is more understanding to you and understands your feelings is the one to talk to first. Tell them that you like someone and hopefully they will totally understand.Dear Confused,
Talk to your mom about it first and see how she feels if she gets mad tell her exactly what you wrote in this that you dont want to hide part of your life from her then if that goes okay move on to telling your dad or have your mom tell himJust Talk with your parents in a quiet room and tell them that your older now and your starting to like boys. That gets them all the time.9 bf's already. Dude I'm 15 going on 16. I'm not in a rush, you shouldn't be either.ah well let's see they can't tell you that you can't like someone. maybe date someone. plus your not really dating, right? just saying your boyfriend and girlfriend?9 ? wow.. well that's middle school.
i would definitely talk to your parents about the situation.. ask about group dates, those are always a good option. they aren't really a date but you still get to hang out with a boy.
ask your mom if you can go to the mall or something with the boy.. have her drop you off and introduce the two of them
good luck!Let your parents know that most teenagers your age want or already have boyfriends. I can easily say that your parents will not be convinced if they know you have your history of bad relationships (you claimed to have nine boyfriends, meaning they were most likely short-term). If they don't know, just let them know you're looking for love. Go on into a conversation about their boyfriends/girlfriends and at how old they were when they started to have them. Most people start having relationships at around 13, since it is a maturing age when you usually start puberty.dude your barely 14 and youve had 9 boyfriends?
wow. anyway, im 15 andd i really dont give it a lot of importance.
my parents dont let me date either. but i mean, take it easy. your fourteen. guys are either going to play with you, so if you're willing to play the game, do it rightt. telling your parents you have a boyfriend that you will probably loose in a month is not very smart. hide it for the moment and believe me, you'll be thankful. wait till your like 16, then your parents will totally let you! :DMy parents say the same thing...of course they are just joking...which parent understands you more your mom or your dad(mom when it comes to me) tell them and then wait a while to tell the other!!! or just tell them...i think 14 is a great age to start dating!!!see i have the same problem. and when i went on my first date, it was like hell. the whole "i cant beleive my daughters growing up" thing. this is how i confronted them for that. "heyy mom...i have a question...i doubt its gonna be a yes buuuut just listen first......do you think that i would be able to go on a daate?" it felt awkward but worked. of course i still dont like confronting them, i thought that would break the ice but it didnt. ://You don't have to convince them of anything. You're going to like who you'll like and that's that. You're you and they can't keep you from that. You can tell them and they probably won't like it, but they can never take it away from you. If you're looking for their support, the best I can offer is be what you'd like to be treated as. Want to be treated like an adult? Be one.i have the same problem ive had like 5 bfs and my mom and dad dont know but i wouldnt tell them if their like my mom and dad but howabout you just tell youre mom i tell my mom but NOT my dad:) tell me how it works out:)what you do is sit down with your parents and say: mom ,dad i know you said that i can not date until i am 21 ,but i am a girl i need to bring out a girl in side of me so here it is i am dateing this boy i really like.Well if it is up to them you won't like boys til their dead. As a parent I see their point. You have plenty of time to be crushing on boys. Worry about your Barbie dolls for now.FUNNY!!
My dad says the same thing.but not my mum.
:"im comming to your first date and you can go by yourself when your 21.
i told them i have a boyfriend and im only 11.
they thought it was cute.
exept i dont want them to meet him.
girl your too young now to even think that.
wait till your older ..please.....
i dont really tell my mum and dad every thing .. so i got my friends to tell my mum and dad at my party when i was gone.
i wanted them to say it when i was gone and when i came back they were like "awww my little girl,all grown up"#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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