Posted on March 13th, 2010 by anonym
My best friend (23yo Stephanie) and I (18yo, pregnant in 25th week) have been living together for more than 1 year now. We are very close, we share everything, help, confide to, trust each-other we do most things and spend a lot of time together. She is the best friend in the world and so am I for her (and please don't judge the age, it would be too childish to do that).
We have been sharing one bed since we live together. We are Not lesbians and we do Not do anything like that, just really good friends. Here is where my problem comes: We have the same friends, either male or female. If I happen to talk with someone for more than 5 minutes or if someone hugs me (my friends are close and we have such relations for a long time) or does anything more than "Hi, how are you?", makes Steph jealous. I pretend not to see at all until I'm done with my conversation or whatever I do with the other person, but she is moody all the time, then she refuses to do anything else and just stays around me, trying to pretend she is ok. We work at one place (job from the internet but we have to go to the company once in a while) and our co-workers respect us but I don't feel it's ok to pay all my attention to steph all the time. How do I help her stop being jealous and what do I do at all?You separate. Your friend's attachment is stronger than you think. Time to have your own life. You're going to have a baby to raise. How'd you get enough time to get pregnant? do you think she wants more than just your friendship?? after all you confide in each other everything and sleep in the same bed for over a year.hmm sounds to me she wants more of youI think talking to your friend about how you feel is the only option. If you two are as good and close of friends as you say, then she will be willing to listen and resolve the matter. However, she must be willing to be honest in return for the problem to be resolved. I had a friend that I roomed with for 2 yrs and we always talked about things that bothered us or concerned us with each other and it worked. We always had the line of communication open with no barriers. Just have respect and be honest with one another and it can work!I think that you need to talk to her face-to-face about the jealousy. She's your friend and she's there for you a lot. Just be there for her like she's there for you.
Maybe a little jealousy is not too bad anyway. It just shouldn't affect your social life, okay?#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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